I consider those features and options. Customized to make the phone fit your needs.
Same wall of icons. Simple UI that has gotten stale and boring. To many, simple is a good thing. That is, if you enjoy having apple tell you what you can and can't do.
Every user is different, but it doesn't feel like Apple tells me what I can and can't do, because I can do everything I want to.
I've had Android phones for the past three years and I have to say that the support, timely updates, ecosystem (iTunes+iCloud), battery life, and integration with my iPad make the iPhone a much better device despite the apparently-lacking features.
In a feature list war the iPhone will always lose, but in terms of usability it beats Android hands down.
I love Android, just find iOS suits me more at the moment. Google needs to work on the ecosystem more and make sure that their services are rolled out worldwide in a timely fashion. Google Music has been in beta in the US for MONTHS, but no word on when it's coming to the UK yet.
Meanwhile iTunes has been available on the iPhone in the UK since it was released, and iTunes Match was available very shortly after it was released.