I had to put my 2c in.
RAM usage is a function of software design, and not hardware design.
Apple transitioning into its own hardware design does not mean software will be using less RAM.
RAM is RAM is still true, whether on Apple silicon or Intel.
The reason software/app developers use more RAM in their software designs is because in the Intel paradigm, there is a huge disparity in speed between RAM and SSD/disks. Since data is stored on SSD/disks, running operations on that data will be much faster if that data is copied to RAM. Thus, to allow a great user experience, more data on high speed RAM is the way to go.
Now, on apple silicon paradigm, the speed disparity is much much less. Thus, running operations on data stored in SSD/disks is a much more reasonable proposition than it is on Intel’s.
Software devs can then re-design the software to copy less data to RAM, and still be able to provide great user experience.
Less RAM is a decision from software devs. Apple simply made the decision making easier.