No "need" to update to OC 0.6.6, but I highly recommend to 0.6.6. e.g. it provide DRM streaming. Even you don't need it, but still worth to have this function properly activate in an OS.
I also found that some Big Sur UI may shows laggy after a period of time. For applications, simply close it and re-open can fix it. But if a generic slow down, then a reboot is required.
However, it isn't that bad on my cMP. It's generally responsive.
For VRAM issue, I highly suspect that's due to HiDPI. What you see at this page?
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