While I'm not particularly thrilled with the job...
That's probably a little bit of an understatement ha! (Although I'm sure it was intended to be)
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Great point! The person interviewing you has a lot to do with whether or not you are hired. In my case, I could tell right off the bat that my second interviewer was a real "no nonsense" type of gal - a stickler. During the interview when I attempted to make light of the situation (the interview) to ease the obvious tension, I got nothing in return - NOTHING! Dead silence. Furthermore, when presented with a scenario type question, I tried to zero in on the exact issue to better craft my answer by asking a question. Her response in absolute seriousness: "You tell me." I've only posted here a few times, but maybe someone will remember my first post when I said "I new I didn't get the gig as soon as the second interview was over." This is why. It really sucks when you get a ball breaker for your interviewer. Compounding the issue was that I don't do any type of video conferencing and had to download Skype the night before. When checking my audio quality repeatedly, the recording played back very faintly each time. Therefore, I thought that I was going to have to compensate for the lack of audio quality during the interview by speaking loudly. Normally soft spoken, I was probably sounding a bit like Mr T during the interview. And yes, I asked her right off the bat if she could hear me okay to which she responded "Excuse me?" So my voice tone was loud and overbearing all through the interview. It really, really, really sucked - recorded the interview and could not listen the whole way through - painful to hear. And THIS is what blew the opportunity for me.
Perhaps you all could allow the declines a little room to vent. Its very disappointing when you don't get the gig. For those of you who did get it, don't count your chickens before they're hatched. After going live, you'll be muting your phone during calls to scream your heads off for a few seconds I am certain. Don't be so brazen to think that you got it just because you're so great - you may have gotten it just because you're so "malleable."
Fact of the matter? Many of you won't last beyond six months. Just telling it as it is.
Good way to put everything in perspective! I like how some people think they need to include how much their interviewer "loved" them. That's probably a better example of narcissism.