So sorry. How frustrating. I have to wait to order my Pro Max also, so maybe we can all track those along with you. I hope that your order arrives sooner than Apple says now. I got my Watch a week early.I wish I was apart of the 10/23 crew. I tried very hard to log in at 8:00am but the website kept crashing. I had very few moments to make the order and unfortunately I had to focus on work and was not able to order until 10:00 am. I am now miserably stuck in the 11/6-11/13 window. It is just so frustrating because this was my very first iphone after being team android since the Motorola Droid 2. I am very disappointed in this experience so far but I found that my apple products I recently purchased (Apple Watch SE and Airpods pro) were delivered before their anticipated date. It is a miserable feeling knowing I have to wait 2-3 weeks later then everyone else because Apple didn't allow me to make the purchase at the time everyone else did.
Looking forward to joining the Apple crew when I see my order is shipped :/