It's quite warm! I can really feel it in my face, and I had to put it quite a bit further away than my older 25" monitor (U2515H). And that's with brightness in the 10%–20% range.
This sounds abnormally extreme, particularly at such low brightness. I've sometimes noticed a bit heat from mine but nothing like you describe, and my brightness is usually between 50-75%. If I've been at the monitor for many hours, then maybe I might start to "feel it in my face"? LOL. But all monitors give off heat (they are essentially fancy light bulbs) and this Dell is definitely one of the cooler monitors I've had. Many moons ago I had a Dell 2405FPW and that was like putting your face in front of a space heater. Was kinda nice in the winter tho.
I got HDR working, but whenever I enable it in macOS, the monitor's brightness goes way up, and all brightness settings are disabled (OSD menu, DDPM, third-party apps). Does that match everyone's experience?
I believe this is as designed, but as
@tstafford mentioned, third-party apps like BetterDisplay can in fact allow brightness control even with HDR. You probably want BetterDisplay installed anyway, since it enables using the Apple keyboard function keys to control brightness and volume. The free version suffices for this.
Sound quality is okay to me, but after 5-10 seconds of silence, it's as if the speaker entered as sleep state, and it took about half a second to wake up. Since I'm not usually listening to anything, that effectively means beeps and other notifications are inaudible.
I haven't had this problem.
This is my third day with it, and for the third time the monitor woke up with half the screen glitched, in bright green (see attachment). The first time it happened I reattached the TB4 cable on the MBP's end; the second time I reattached the monitor's end, and this third time is making me worried it won't go away. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Have you tried a different TB4 cable? Does it only happen over TB4 or does the same problem also occur using DP or HDMI? A bad cable I think is the most likely explanation. Also, not to sound like a broken record, but what firmware does your monitor have and have you updated it?
FYI, many pages back, one or two people reported something similar, namely, that after wake, sometimes only half of the screen's backlight would turn back on. I also experienced that myself once or twice when I first got the monitor. But I believe this backlight issue was (silently?) fixed in an earlier firmware update as I haven't seen any recent reports of it, and I only had this issue before I updated to the M2T103 firmware shortly after I got the monitor. Not exactly the same symptoms as your half glitched screen but perhaps it is the same underlying issue or related.
Some of these issues make me wonder if I got a lemon. These problems, combined with some of the more well-known issues (like long wakeup times) are making me seriously consider returning it and getting a Studio Display; which is a shame, I had really high hopes for this monitor.
I agree with the others here that you might have gotten a lemon, but instead of returning it, I suggest contacting Dell support to get it fixed. My monitor also arrived with (different) problems out of the box (possibly due to shipping), but working with Dell support was super easy and they quickly sent out a replacement and all has been well ever since.