I had an external SSD drive attached via USB to the right IO board during updating. (Jetdrive could have been in there but not todayMost people having the issue report that they had an SD card in a card reader.
I first thought this was not the case for me, but then I noticed my Transcend Jetdrive was in a USB hub I attached to one of the USB ports :-(, so I can count myself in.
So if one wants to install Big Sure on a MBP 13 late 2013/mid 2014 (or to be sure any other model) I recommend to remove all SD cards.D
Macbook is back on running after unplugging the right IO board but i will try to reach apple support tomorrow morning again. i don't want to do the exchange myself even if that is not a big surgery.