There is a running joke in my marriage that I make a lot of coffee, but I don't drink a lot of coffee. To those of us who inhabit this thread, it seems perfectly sane: the first shot is almost never right, if you are lucky the second is, but not infrequently it takes to the third shot before I drink.
Small pleasures....the ritual. The process. Almost a sacred thing. And I think this is one reason I have really taken to tea for my evening cup over the past couple of years, aside from the health issues. The ritual of tea is just fantastic. I told my wife the other night that I think I can taste the difference between water heated over a flame vs. water heated over an electric element....completely untrue, of course, but it makes the point. Water for tea must be heated over an open flame.
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I may have told this story previously in The Thread. In undergrad, many, many years ago, as a freshman I shared a house with six others. One morning, I walked into the kitchen to see a roommate roasting coffee beans in a frying pan on an electric burner. I could not believe what I was seeing....watching the beans crack and jump six or eight inches into the air as my friend frantically "stirred" the beans by moving the pan.
Thus it began.
Great story.
Actually, in Asia - or the environs - the tea is fantastic (and I write that as someone who cannot stand the tea we drink in the British Isles). It is only in recent years that I have begun to acquire a taste for good tea, and agreed, it is very nice to have some in the evening.
Russia, Georgia, Kyrgyzstan, the Caucasus, Afghanistan, all have superb tea, while Turkey and Armenia share the rare accolade of being able to prepare and serve both stunning tea and coffee.
However, re coffee, even as child, I thrilled to the aroma of real coffee. My father liked it, - actually, he loved it - whereas, my mother didn't.
For some reason, - probably because, like grapefruit, I have always actually liked coffee - an aside: I may have written about my real love for this fruit ever since I first tasted it, aged around four, to the stupefaction of the adults who gave it to me, probably to shut me up because I kept asking to try it, they kept saying that they doubted I'd like it as it was sour and bitter - anyway, I remember experiencing an epiphany of some sort, realising that this was a taste I had been waiting for all my young life.
Coffee was the same, as was dark chocolate: These were tastes that I never had to acquire, even as a small child, I was born having acquired what is normally an acquired taste.
Sweets, - most sweets - ice cream, confectionary, milk chocolate, on the other hand, I have disliked all my life.
Anyway, I do recall that friends of my parents were always surprised that - as a small child - I was allowed to drink real coffee, and that I actually wanted to. The upshot of all this is that from the age of around eight or so, I became the family coffee maker, - whenever (real) coffee was required, either for my parents, or for guests, a position I still hold some decades later.
The first real coffee I prepared was with a beautiful coffee set my parents had been given as a wedding present - at week-ends, they got into the habit of using it after dinner, and I was taught - or encouraged to want to learn - how to make coffee using this exquisite set.
However, as
@Kurwenal has already pointed out, this is an interest and a skill that one updates constantly, adding further refinements and skill sets as required.