Reading this is already making me doubt my decision to go from 13PM to 14Pro
If it were me I’d stay with the max size. I always had bigger phones then tried the 12 pro. Sure for a bit it was nice that it seemed to disappear easier into my pocket but it was still a heavy phone. I then got a 13 pro max and realized the perks of that nice big screen and battery life were so worth it and glad to be back to the bigger phone.
Regarding the weight between the two sizes of pro phones, something I was just commenting about in another thread, the regular pro almost feels heavier to me because it’s a smaller size yet still has a good amount of heft to it. The max just feels bigger in the hand so I think my brain just expects the amount of weight it has so it doesn’t really feel heavier (if that makes sense).