I also find myself flip flopping between macOS and Windows. I grew up on Windows, but always wanted a Mac. After assembling a collection of vintage Macs, I got my first modern one, an M2 Mini. I was so happy to have it at the time, but the Wi-Fi issues annoyed the heck out of me and the realization that I had given up upgradeable RAM and storage just to stay with Apple wasn't sitting well with me, so I sold the Mini and went back to my 2012 MBP. Problem with that MBP is that patched macOS is a gamble, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Using Windows or Linux on a MBP feels unnatural due to the one button mouse and the command key (I've lost count of how many times I hit the command key on accident when using Windows/Ubuntu on that MBP). I had heard how good the T480 line of ThinkPads were, so I found one for cheap online and while it is not as fast as the M2, it is faster than the 2012 MBP and the keyboard lives up to the hype. I have the T480s model, so I only have one upgradeable RAM slot instead of two, but one slot is better than none, imo.
I'm not crazy about the Windows 11 UI, but I like that in Windows I have much better software compatibility than I do on macOS and Linux. Apple Music for Windows is garbage though (and the last iTunes for Windows is pbretty bad too), so I plan on using my 2012 MBP to manage my music library and sync my iPod Touch. I can't decide whether I should try patched Sonoma again, for future proofing, or if I should run Mojave/High Sierra again on the 2012 (so I can use the much better UI of iTunes). So yeah, I'm kind of in this weird space where I'm using Windows again for daily driver stuff, but using macOS for specific tasks/fun.