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But your situation is one that needs to be addressed. Trust me, you want that mess out of your brain, you'll be much happier without it. If worst comes to worst and you need a place to stay, my parents would help you out in Austin, or you could stay in my dorm in NYC :(. Whatever the case, don't underestimate the happiness that independence and self-acceptance can bring you.

Okay, I'm off and away, talk to you guys soon, hopefully. :)

_Emerson
 
Frozone said:
Not quite sure I want it out, though. There's always gonna be the "what if" factor, thearpy or not.

But, Let's change the subject. Haha, almost the past whole page has been about my problems.
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What if's are a dangerous way to live.

You're not promised tomorrow.

What's good about a belief system that teaches you to hate yourself?

I'm not here to yank you away from your beliefs, but let me tell you, you don't want to be in your late twenties hating yourself like I was. I missed out on a lot of fun in my life, which I now live vicariously through Emo for. ;)
 
scem0 said:
But your situation is one that needs to be addressed. Trust me, you want that mess out of your brain, you'll be much happier without it. If worst comes to worst and you need a place to stay, my parents would help you out in Austin, or you could stay in my dorm in NYC :(. Whatever the case, don't underestimate the happiness that independence and self-acceptance can bring you.

Okay, I'm off and away, talk to you guys soon, hopefully. :)

_Emerson
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Well, I'm currently quite happy. About the only thing in my life bothering me atm is a frew stressors which aren't much related to being a homosexual. (Well, all except one -- The friend thing) BTW, thanks for the Parents & Dorm thing. :)

What if's are a dangerous way to live.

You're not promised tomorrow.

What's good about a belief system that teaches you to hate yourself?

I'm not here to yank you away from your beliefs, but let me tell you, you don't want to be in your late twenties hating yourself like I was. I missed out on a lot of fun in my life, which I now live vicariously through Emo for.
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That's true, I don't wanna live my life by "What Ifs". But, I don't really hate myself anymore. I know about who I am, and though I tend to dislike certain area's I don't have the hate and fury with myself that I used to have. I'm a much more humble and satisfied person. I think in a way i'm still waiting to see if I ever like gals again. Which, I do fancy gals atm more than I did. So, who knows. Maybe it'll happen! :D

I've said it before, and I'll say it again - I'm here to help
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noaccess said:
Maybe you're bi :confused:.
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Well, Maybe...I'd much prefer being Bi than gay. The only thing about women is that they're so much prettier clothed than unclothed. :/ But a woman in a nice pretty dress drives in cRaZy. ...Gorgeous... :D

It's just when that dress comes off that I'm.....*puke* LOL
 
Frozone said:
It's just when that dress comes off that I'm.....*puke* LOL
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Hey, you can be bi and only love a woman when she's dressed. All you have to do is love her in the first place.
Right?
Okay, maybe 'love' isn't always applicable. There can be sex without love.
Right?
 
So, Anyways..Anyone know how to break addictions. I think I'm addicted to sunflower seeds. I'm on my 3rd or 4th 15 oz bag this week. I took a photo of my trashcan a while back and the amount I've eaten so far this week have dwarfed this amout...


BTW: The back of the photo is like 3-4 inches deep with sunflower seeds. :eek:

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Frozone said:
That'd be a pretty boring sex life. :D :p :eek:
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Assuming that you can be turned on by her in such a way (maybe imagining her dressed :)) that you can actually get it 'up', if ya know what I mean.
The thing is, ya never know until ya try it. Good luck!
 
Frozone said:
That'd be a pretty boring sex life. :D :p :eek:
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Good luck Frozone, and if we seem a bit forward about what YOU shoudl do, it's only because we speak from experience and don't want others to have to suffer. ;)

It's not easy at times, but you are in a much better place in time than some of us were when "coming out."
 
noaccess said:
Assuming that you can be turned on by her in such a way (maybe imagining her dressed :)) that you can actually get it 'up', if ya know what I mean.
The thing is, ya never know until ya try it. Good luck!
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I don't think that'd be a problem. The problem would be me not puking all over her. :eek: :D :cool: :rolleyes:
 
iGary said:
Good luck Frozone, and if we seem a bit forward about what YOU shoudl do, it's only because we speak from experience and don't want others to have to suffer. ;)

It's not easy at times, but you are in a much better place in time than some of us were when "coming out."
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Nothing wrong with trying to help. I appreciate it! :)
 
Frozone said:
So, Anyways..Anyone know how to break addictions. I think I'm addicted to sunflower seeds. I'm on my 3rd or 4th 15 oz bag this week. I took a photo of my trashcan a while back and the amount I've eaten so far this week have dwarfed this amout...


BTW: The back of the photo is like 3-4 inches deep with sunflower seeds. :eek:

Sunflower2.jpg
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You're a bird.
 
Frozone said:
So, Anyways..Anyone know how to break addictions. I think I'm addicted to sunflower seeds. I'm on my 3rd or 4th 15 oz bag this week. I took a photo of my trashcan a while back and the amount I've eaten so far this week have dwarfed this amout...
BTW: The back of the photo is like 3-4 inches deep with sunflower seeds. :eek:
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My advice: get addicted to ecs. I'm sure you won't need sunflower seeds anymore :rolleyes: :p.
 
ecstasy.
You can get hooked on anything else. What's certain is that sunflower seeds'll be a thing of the past.
 
Good luck in getting your 'tar, Fro.
And keep posting like you did today. You'll be there in notime.

OMG, I just saw on TV that they're gonna start giving vaccines against avian flu to school students. Well, at least I know that bird flu isn't what's gonna kill me.

Whatever. Anyway, I'm off to bed (but if I can't sleep I'll be back tho). I have school and about 3 tests tomorrow (I hate trigonometry and all that sine/cosine/tangent/cotangent/radian/trigonometrical identity BS! :mad: ). The homework took me 12 pages and 5 hrs! ***tells himself to shut up***
Have a nice Sunday/night/week (depending on your timezone).
 
Frozone said:
I'm just not quite sure I wanna go there, espically since EVERYONE I know is going there. And, I'm not quite comfortable telling anyone I currently know that I like guys. (Except one person who knows) So, If I went to UGA it'd be HS all over, just on a College level.
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I understand on a different level. But in the end, life is what we make it.

An aside; I remember coming out and going to bars locally. Lived in fear that I would be seen at "one of those bars". And what would get back to my circle of friends at the time. Takes sometime to get over those feelings, but you do.
 
noaccess said:
Good luck in getting your 'tar, Fro.
And keep posting like you did today. You'll be there in notime.

OMG, I just saw on TV that they're gonna start giving vaccines against avian flu to school students. Well, at least I know that bird flu isn't what's gonna kill me.

Whatever. Anyway, I'm off to bed. I have school and about 3 tests tomorrow (I hate trigonometry! :mad: ). If I can't sleep, I'll B back. Have a nice Sunday/night/week (depending on your timezone).
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I loved Trig. Had my highest math grade in there since Pre-Algebra. Where are you at, btw? I was guessing USA, until you said that. Don't think you're gonna be going to bed in the middle of the afternoon just for some test. :)
 
noaccess said:
If it helps you (and sounds like it sure does), then you should really consider what Em and Lee said. Wait for the right time to do it, like you said you would. If your parents really love you they'll do what's objectively best for you (which I sure as hell hope won't be to put you on the 'path towards God').
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Add to that a person needs to show their parents that the values they were raised with are still be adhered to, even if it is with a person of the same sex. The problems I have seen in my past of peer counseling is when one trys to act out by going to extremes of the Gay/Lesibian community.
 
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