Your MacBook Pro is perfectly usable
Not really. I said my 2012 Mac Mini was still pretty good, but the 2008 Macbook Pro is definitely slow at certain tasks, especially with the newer macOS operating systems on it. I thought about putting an SSD in it (simple to do compared to the newer ones), but at some point you're putting lipstick on a pig, particularly when the SSD in question I would want is almost $400.
The only reason I'm not feeling the full effect of Apple's "screw the pooch" approach to macOS is that I have RAID 0 hard drives which are getting 250Mb/sec. My mother who bought a Macbook Pro the same year (2012) isn't so lucky. She's stuck with a rotational drive that the newer macOS is designed to slow down around (big time). Her computer is like 1/5 the speed it used to be because the OS keeps trying to do everything at once (random access drives like SSD are good at this; rotational drives, not so much). If I run Handbrake on even my RAID drives, it slows down other operations. OS X (as it was called then) used to handle time-sharing for hard drive access FAR better than it does now. They should have had detection for rotational and used whatever they used to have for that and the optimized for SSD stuff only if you have SSD drives, but they seemed to decide to do away with all rotational drives briefly, but then realized sales were dropping due to the increased prices and suddenly started selling iMacs with rotational drives again even though they run like crap in anything newer than Mavericks.
There's still a need for rotational drives (they're dirt cheap at much higher capacities for things like media use), but Macs really should at least have hybrid drives to handle the OS stuff in the background on solid state these days since the OS is practically expecting it now.
but any new MacBook like the air would be a good upgrade in speed
I don't recall saying the 2008 Macbook Pro was fast. I said the 2012 Mac Mini with a quad-core i7 is still pretty decent. I use the 2008 mostly for music recording with an older version of Logic Pro, but I regret updating the OS from Snow Leopard as it definitely suffered about a 15-20% loss in capability with Logic Pro even so due to the new crap overhead of the ever-bulking macOS operating system (until Leopard, OS X only got faster each version and then it stayed stable and increased for new features and then went to hell with Lion. Mountain Lion improved things with some newer hardware (the Mini was great) and Mavericks didn't seem to hurt it, but starting with Yosemite, the hard drives went to hell and everything slowed down. El Capitan fixed the GUI speed (due to acceleration with Metal) on my Mini, but the hard drive use it still not anywhere near as good as it use to be for sharing time with other programs. Whatever starts first seems to hog it all now.
, and any other MacBook (expect this MacBook with no fans) would be a verry good upgrade and you would notice it in any way saying that a 2008 Mac with 4gb ram and no ssd is better than the ******** today is just wrong from A to Z
Given I never said any such thing, I don't know why you're even bringing it up. I said the CPU on the 2014 Mac Mini was a downgrade from the 2012 quad-core i7 (it is) and they also did away with the dual-drive bay and easy user upgrades as well. NOTHING was improved except the GPU to some extent (still crappy compared to most desktop Windows machines that typically at least have a mid-range NVidia or AMD in them. I can vastly improve the hard drive performance by adding an SSD (and I can even put a 4TB internal in the other internal bay to go with it giving me 4-6TB internal), but the GPU is a lost cause. Newer Macs might at least be able to upgrade the GPU with Thunderbolt 3 external enclosures, assuming someone makes one that doesn't cost more than an entire new computer some day....
Only the cheap usb3 external hard drives will make that worth at least it did it to me.
At least my 2008 Macbook Pro could be upgraded to USB3 ($12 card in the expansion port and I had USB3 capability. Apple doesn't like that, though. They want you to buy a new computer instead).
Windows can't compare to OS X they made it look smarter and easy to install new devices, but in the end it's windows it just sucks when it gets old like they all do.(it's there feature since windows 95)
It sounds like you haven't used a Windows computer since Windows 95. Windows 10 mostly kicks OSX's butt at this point (vastly better graphics hardware, OS and driver support; touchscreen and tablet mode support, most of the good stuff from the Mac GUI is now in Windows, etc.) What makes Windows 10 suck is malware still exists there are 1000x the rate of macOS and Microsoft sends data to itself whether you want it to or not and forces upgrades on everyone but Enterprise users. That DOES suck, but that's more "political" than technical. Otherwise, I probably would have switched by now or at least have added a Windows machine for gaming. But I don't like the OS spying on me.
And windows phone is so dead, that using it is like crying out loud I am outdated
I just got another Windows 10 update the other day. So much for "dead".
Seriously, a lack of apps doesn't bother me nor does a small user base (you'd think most Mac users would be used to that given how few have owned Macs at various points in time). I also don't live my life on my phone. Do you know how much an iPhone costs now? I paid $38 for this phone and for $99 more (sdCard) I have 208 GB of memory, an 8MP camera, full 1080p HD recording and service costs me $11.80 a month on Tracphone (minutes, texts and data with rollover). For texting, browsing, email, news reading and playing back movies and music, it works great. I don't need a zillion apps I'll never use and I don't "Facebook" or any other social media crap. If you enjoy paying $600-1000+ for an iPhone every other year to use a "phone" be my guest. This isn't about who has the larger wang-chung. It's about me not spending a fortune on garbage I don't need or want. If Microsoft doesn't offer anything good replace it, I'll be looking at Android most likely because Apple doesn't have even one reasonably priced phone model in their lineup.
I am not an Apple TV user, I use an chromecast right now
Chromecast is just a substitute for Airplay. It's not a media system like FireTV or AppleTV.
But I think that I will get the new Apple TV when it comes out because of: HomeKit, iOS integration.
Homekit? Yeah, let hackers take control of your house. Wait until people start getting driven off cliffs and into other vehicles when hackers or terrorists take control of their self-driving cars in a few years. No thanks. It's already happened with hackers using smart thermostats and security cameras to participate in denial of service attacks. The security on most of this crap is pathetic.
I'll look at the next AppleTV when it comes out and see what it has to offer. If it's not suitable to me, I won't buy it. I'm more likely to buy a Windows based media box at this point becuase there are models out there that can run MVS hardware decoding for 3D with Kodi and THAT is useful to me (I despise using Blu-Ray discs in a player because of the forced menus, previews, etc. not to mention having to hunt for the disc, not get any fingerprints, etc. on them. I tend to rip and encode and access everything from Kodi's menu system and a server and leave the BDs on the shelf (save 3D for now).
They can make TVs smart, but how here wants an Samsung smart tv who listen what are your talking about at home ?
And you don't think Siri won't do that some day? They're just behind the curve. But my FireTV's "Alexa" only listens when I push the Mic button. It's not on all the time like the Echo devices.
I use Apple because I know I can trust in privacy and that it will work shameless.
I don't trust Apple under Tim Cook because he keeps using it to push his personal agendas while ignoring users when it comes to App approvals like ad blockers, etc. I don't want to see macOS end up the same way. If it does, I'm done with it (probably move to desktop Linux whether I like it or not at that point).