Found this thread about a week ago. I was very glad to find I wasn't only person having this crashes during sleep issue since upgrading to Monterey. I have Mac Pro 6.1, 6 core, d500.
I had some short term success (reduced frequency of crashing) turning off all Energy Saver checkboxes, but crashing continued. For last 6 days or so, I've disconnected my WD MyBook drive used for Time Machine backups. Over that time, I've had "wake for network access" and "Enable Power Nap" checked. No crashes. When I took a shot at reconnecting the TM drive, I had a crash (woke computer up and saw a login screen).
I had no issues with the drive or time machine prior to upgrading to Monterey. If I plug in the TM drive and let it backup while I work and then disconnect it, I'm able to backup. Not as convenient, but so it goes. I also erased the TM drive, reformatted (APFS), and did a fresh backup; still crashed.
I'm not suggesting this is anything. And, it's possible the issue will return. But, I wanted to share.