Exactly. Bought my first Apple product in 1985 and have had every product since. In our family we have four iPhones, three iPads, three MBP, one MacBook Air M2, four sets of AirPods Pro 2, three AppleTV 4Ks, one Home Pod and three satellites and four Apple watches. Love the ecosystem.I would have to agree that the Quest 3 is better at least for me and what I would use it for. Mostly because I can hook it up to my gaming PC for some serious VR gaming at awesome frame rates which is NEVER going to be possible at that level with a locked down Apple device. Sure they have made advancements and it is actually possible to port games over to their M chips and some of them run decently but it will never be as good as a dedicated GPU. Also the price. My build was $3300 with i9 and RTX 4090. Add another $500 for a Quest 3 and I am barely over MSRP on a Vision Pro.
But I also built a massive gaming PC with a 3090 three years ago and love that thing. I have the Quest 3 and the price of my gaming PC and Quest 3 together are less than $3000. The Quest 3 is a fun device and I really enjoy it. For $500 it's just an incredible piece of equipment.
There is no way in hell I'd pay $4000 out the door for the Vision Pro. The tech will trickle down and there will be a product down the road much less expensive with many more use-cases.