We are very similar with our android experience. This year has been the longest time I have spent with android. A few thinks that irked me when trying iOS again were the keyboard, not being able to access notification drop down on the lock screen, not being able to clear notifications all at once, and badge icons are ugly.
Jail break helps a ton. I mean it's figured out iOS far faster and better than apple has. Without it I don't think i would even consider keeping the iPhone. I still might not. Nothing will change the 4" screen. :T
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This! You'll need to charge it fully and if you respring or reboot the stats are reset.
Try DietBulletin for the slimmer notification
Grolub do you have any idea how these jailbreak apps affect the battery life? Is it significant? I mainly have:
Zephyr
Auxo
Activator (with one command only. Tap hold status bar to sleep device)
Webscrollian
Password pilot
Swipe safari
Folder closer
Map opener (to make google maps default)
That's it. Just wondering if you have any idea. I will definitely test in the coming days.