One quick plus to Android in general is that as an avid reader of books on the Kindle app and watcher of movies from Amazon Prime, I can buy books and movies from within the same apps I use to view them. I can't do that on the iOS versions of Amazon Kindle and Amazon Prime Video.
I have to exit the apps and go to the web site and purchase them and download them and then go back into the iPhone app to consume the content. Pain in the tail. Of course since this is due to business and not technical limitations, it could all change at any time.
Basically what the Pixel in particular gives me is a consistently clean direct access to Google Assistant without having to bypass other built in assistants that are improving, but still tend to strike out more often than Google Assistant does.
Of course you can get Google Assistant on an iPhone or Samsung and yes it's also available on other Android brands that also have a lighter touch than Samsung. But with the Pixel it's a more direct access. I would imagine that's also true of Android One devices. I can't say because I haven't used them.
Prior to the Pixel I had an HTC 10 that gave me something of a taste of what stock Android could be, but their flavor of Android, Sense, did have a way of imposing itself on my experience. For example, where we are used to swiping for Apple News, they provided an inbuilt news app from one of their partners that I could not replace or customize due to some glitch and that thing was awful. It fed a constant stream of hideous tabloid news. Not even good funny "Justin Beiber is a Reptillian Shapeshifter" news but more along the lines of murders nobody needs to hear about at breakfast.
Similarly, I find the Bixby page on my S9+ a bit annoying. I can see how they want to make it useful and indispensable, but I'd rather have Google news there. All the things it wants to show me on that page I can already place as widgets in locations that better suit me. I don't need that Bixby page. I don't like it. I don't like the Apple Widget page either. I am not saying they are poorly designed. They're fine. I just don't like them and Pixel fortunately isn't making me put up with that sort of thing.
So far I like Google news better and unfortunately that is probably because Google spies on me and knows what I might be interested in and puts it in front of me. For example I play games like Sims 4 and it knows this somehow, (probably because I log into the official site via Chrome on my pc) and puts Sims 4 tips and news I'd never have found for myself right there on my news page.
Yet I don't find Google news to restrict me to one particular viewpoint. I still get news that's not aligned with all of my political ideals. It's more diverse than I would have expected. Yes I know I can customize Apple News. And I have done so. But it never seems to throw me any interesting curve balls anymore. It used to. It definitely feels curated now...by my mom.
I mentioned there may be a price to pay or a Devil to bargain with for all this convenience and that IS being constantly spied on. I don't know how much of that I will tolerate over time. We shall see.
But as we have seen from yesterday's headlines on this site, iPhone users are not immune to having their data harvested. It will be an ongoing battle and Apple may try to plug these data leaks but meanwhile the carriers and simple public records and the insurance companies will accumulate the truly intrusive data about you.
I'm getting along much better than I expected without iMessage probably because I haven't yet tried to convert the number I use for iMessages over to my Pixel. I don't know or understand what's going on, but whenever I have heard of people having issues of missing texts from people with whom they used to communicate with on iMessages, it's because the number they're using was associated with iMessage.
@jamezr doesn't seem to have any problems so if y'all can put aside your differences he can possibly explain why and how he doesn't have any problems. My husband is not currently having any issues either.
I simply gave out my Android number and people added it to any group texts I have been on with my iPhone.
Where I have a problem is if I am just on the Pixel and one of the kids is only on their iPad and I need to text them.
My texts are pretty boring and consist mostly of discussion about dinner and shopping lists and the kids homework, so I haven't worried too much about encryption. But due to the snags I mentioned about Pixel not being able to text to the iPad, as well as some concern that I may want more privacy in the future, as a family we may look at something like Telegram or a similar service. SMS will suffice for the limited texting I do now with people whom I can't ask to download an app.
I don't know why, but I haven't noticed any issues sharing pictures via SMS. They come through just fine. I guess the carriers changed something? I'll have to ask my husband or maybe someone here knows.
I will need to do more testing on videos. It's been a long time since any of us have shared videos. As I recall, the quality seemed fine when I was looking at video shared in a group text that included Android users. I was on the iPhone when I viewed the video.
Even on an iPhone, I had gotten used to sharing links to my Google photos rather than sending the actual pictures if there are more than one.
From the questions you're asking me, it really does sound like an iPhone is your ideal device for the way you use a smartphone and the way you've described your preferences. Why are you interested in leaving iPhone for an Android? It just doesn't sound like it would be a good fit for you. It's definitely not for everyone.
If you do switch maybe give the S9 or S10 and the new One UI a try since that's got the widget page similar to what you're used to on iOS. If you don't like the icons there may be frame style icon packs you can get to dress them up a bit. I honestly didn't care for the S8+ myself. It's amazing the difference one year made. But it just doesn't sound like you would enjoy the switch, yet.
Sorry if this post is long and choppy. I had to keep breaking away to take care of everyone and everything as per my usual morning routine. I've not even had coffee yet. Blahhh