Quick update on my personal experience using my new Pixel 3XL.
Hardware-wide, thankfully, I'm not noticing any of the issues documented here--no noticable lag or stutters, quite snappy performance. Admittedly, I'm not examining performance with a fine tooth comb, just using it and I don't feel it's a different experience than using my Max.
Played a YouTube music video on both this 3 XL and my Max side by side on Max volume and performance was about the same. Screen is nice, FP sensor is quick. Notch is big and while I notice it a bit more when watching video in landscape than when using the Max, it is what it is and has pretty much just faded into the background. Actually, correction, I notice it more on the Pixel because of it's intrusion in the notification/status bar--the little single dots on either side indicating there is additional info are there an awful lot. On Android, I think I'd just rather have a larger top bezel house all the sensors/speaker since notches/holes just interfere with notifications.
My personal issues using it as my daily driver don't pertain specifically to the Pixel but rather Android as a whole (won't get into it here as I don't want to derail the thread, TL;DR I still find most of my previous issues still exist and would exist in any Android phone). That being said, I think I'm keeping it and will keep an active SIM in it (using Mint--$20 for first 3 months of 8GB of data/month
). My main number will stay in an iPhone since there is no way I’m willing to give up my Apple Watch but, I'm very seriously considering selling my Max and picking up a lesser model just to maintain my iOS existence and watch connection. I'm willing to live with compromises as I've finally hit my personal breaking point with Apple's direction and business practices. I'm not going to liquidate my Apple gear but won't be purchasing anything else from them for the immediate future unless some serious changes happen. As existing hardware needs upgrading, I'll evaluate whether it not its replacement comes from Apple or not.