I am no iOS fan, but will admit the iPhone XS Max is a stunning phone, absolutely beautiful design, and full screen looks super cool.
But then you turn it on, and hear the Atari sounds "pew pew pew" when I see that dated iOS home screen, that hasn't changed in a decade, and the dated iOS looks so out of place on such a modern looking phone.
Is the Pixel 3 XL a boring phone ? I suppose that could be said, but "it just works" and is so smooth and no lag or hiccups, and the whole package just works so well together. I'll take a "boring" stock Android phone over all gimmicky stuff Samsung Galaxy phones come with, which I'd disable 90% of the BS and your still stuck with Lagwiz. The Pixel 3 XL strong points;
- Camera is out of this world amazing, and Night Site is some black magic wizardry
- Display on the 3 XL is a Samsung A+ screen
- Google Assistant baked into the phone works so frigging well, blows away Siri LOL
- Monthly security updates like clockwork, the first Monday of each month. No long waits or months for updates, this phone is directly supported by Google.
Right now in 2018 the best smartphone FOR ME, would be the Google Pixel 3 XL. Second would be the OnePlus 6T, third would be the small Pixel 3. Other than that no other phones I'd get
You're off the mark on your Samsung hate. The whole lagwiz nonsense is based off their software from 5 years ago. It has improved considerably since then. Hell, the Note 9 is considered by most the best Android phone out there right now.