Ugh, sorry about your eyes. This time whatever change they made works sufficiently for me to keep the 11 Pro but if I’m going to do any e book reading, I’m going to be doing it on my Pixel 3XL which by some miracle has the best display for that purpose. Note 10+ is good, too, but perfect flatness is the best display for reading on. I have the 3XL around so I may as well use it. But if I didn’t, the Note 10+ display is softer on the eyes than the iPhone 11 Pro. Both have pwm and I can detect flicker on ALL of my OLED displays. Unfortunately iPhone has an implementation that happens to be the worst for eye strain.
I love the Note 10+, and so does my husband. I think it would be his only phone if both of us weren’t tied socially to so many iOS users. There is an ease to sharing photos and videos and other content with iPhone users that doesn’t quite exist between Android and iPhone. There are workarounds. Easy ones, actually. But it’s not quite the same. Since we find we need two lines apiece anyway, mostly due to family medical emergencies, we just make one for Android and one for iOS, that’s all.
The curved edges can indeed be easy to accidentally bump. Samsung’s rugged case helps me get a better grip on the phone to avoid that more. Visually, they’re at their least annoying due to a couple of years of serious refinement.
Since you’re already using a 7 Plus the size should not be a shock. It’s a pleasantly light phone compared to iPhones. And you will love the beautiful display.