That was me this past year. She had been using an iPhone 6+ and it was just hell using FaceTime or really anything else on that phone with her. It took 10 seconds to open Gmail. She dropped the phone and the screen was so damaged you could see the actual LED through part of the side casing. She taped it, but when she cut her finger that was the last straw for me. I had enough and bought her the 11 despite her wanting to keep the 6+. Then she realized what she's missing out on after seeing my Pro Max, "the 11 is too narrow, matte camera bump looks weird, there's a shadow around the notch, why is the smaller iPhone (Pro) more expensive...", which resulted in me buying her an 11 Pro Max and selling the 11. She won't admit it but the ordeal turned her into a phone snob too and I haven't let her forget it
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