So, someone on Reddit discovered a loophole that may be a game changer as far as this pre-order goes...
So, one of the bundles Samsung is offering is the Fold 3, Watch 4 Classic, Buds 2, and Spen case for $500 off. But the catch is the max trade in value then becomes like $450 for the Fold 2 and goes down from there. So not a great deal. HOWEVER. If instead of selecting that bundle, you add the items in that bundle separately at the choose accessories screeen, then when you go to checkout it will automatically say it "found a better deal" and convert you to that bundle while still keeping the same trade in value.
With this trick, I was able to get the following for $1150 (with trade in of S21 Ultra and old Active watch): Fold 3 256GB, Watch 4 Classic 46mm, Buds 2, Spen case with spen. Thats a pretty stellar deal.
I'm still not sure I will keep the Fold 3, in which case this will all have to go back, but this deal is good enough for me to at least try it out.