[doublepost=1457921575][/doublepost]I'm really torn on finding a replacement for my 5-series.
VW Touareg TDI- it was nice and I LOVED the engine but it's missing some features, I feel like in some ways it's a step backwards from my 5 in terms of ammentities. I'm also concerned about the TDI legal issues and reliability/repair costs in general.
Jeep Grand Cherokee - It's a nice car and has come a long way since my previous '03 JGC. The interior isn't quite as nice as the Touareg but it offers more of the features I want overall and is a little bit cheaper (granted finding a diesel or V8 model is like looking for a unicorn). I'm nervous that CR and JD-PA ranked Jeep/Chrysler-Fiat rock bottom on reliability, but repair costs are less than the VW. I haven't been able to test drive the Ecodiesel model yet.
BMW X3 - Test drove one of these a while ago. Drive nicely, a lot of fun. I'm used to my 535 and would prefer the X3 35i, which is tough to find. The 28i is decent. The diesel 28d, which I'd love, is way too slow. The X3 feels like a step down from my 5. Something just feels cheesey about the car.
BMW X5 - I haven't test driven the current generation but I've ridden in one. It's everything the X3 should be, just in a very large and now "cow-like" package. Unlike the X3, the X5 diesel (35d) has some oomph. The base gas is the 35i which is great as well. Price tag is pretty high though.
BMW 5-Series- The only sedan I've looked into and test driven. It's a pretty car if you can find decent sized wheels. The 28i is weak compared to the 35i with which I am spoiled with currently. The F10 interior is a huge upgrade from my E60 5-series. Driving Dynamics are a step down. I'd prefer and SUV, and this guy is pretty expensive too.
Land Rover LR4 - Nice car but it's a really dated car with horrible has mileage. It's driving dynamics are far worse than the others- but it has a truck like feel and it's kinda fun. I test drove a CPO 5.0 V8 (newer ones have a SC V6). Technology is super outdated, yet this is one of the most expensive cars I looked at. Reliability is weak, repair prices are high, but LR's resale these days is incredible. My dad has a '12 RR Sport HSE, basically the same car in a different shape, so I'm aware of this. The RRS drives much better though.
Other considerations- I don't like the Q5- too small, too feminine, everybody owns one. I'm not a big Q7 fan. I may look into the A6 though. The XC90 is beautiful, a little big though, and a bit pricey for a 4 cylinder!!! The Cayenne is basically a Touareg with more of the features I want, but they're so expensive, expensive to fix, and way too ostentatious. The Macan is cool, but similar story. The Lexus GX would be great if they slapped a Toyota badge on it, or at least dropped the price $15k because it's horrendously outdated.
Ugh... I don't know what to do.
Good luck with finding a replacement for your BMW 5-series.