And I absolutely agree with that. I should have stated that again in that post like I did with the Mustang post I made. 99% of my issues with the manual( either the Tremec and MT-82) are due to my inexperience and will probably take owning one to properly gain the skill/proficiency. The 5th gear issue will go away once I trust the lockout as I was very consciously trying to avoid an inadvertent shift into reverse at 40 MPH. About the only legitimate gripe about the manual in the SS is the stupid 1-4 skip shift. I was consistently smoothly launching the Camaro after we figured out what I was doing wrong and never stalled it.
I live in the DC area. My commute takes me on the Beltway and it is is hell during rush hour. I only have to be on the beltway for 4 miles, but during rush hour it can take 30-40 minutes to get to my exit. Combine the fact you have idiots cutting over, etc I would probably lose my mind as I try to keep aware of my surroundings and focusing on the shifting, etc.
If the SS wasn't going to be a daily driver, absolutely manual would most likely be my choice. I am still considering the manual, leaning auto, but the stick is still being considered( like I said, had an absolute blast with it despite also being nervous driving it on public roads).
As for the rev matching feature.... I loved it simply for the sound of the engine when it blipped the throttle, nothing else. The LT1 with the exhaust valves fully open( track mode) sounds freaking fantastic.
As for a sedan, if I needed four doors, a rear seat, and trunk, the SS sedan would be my choice right now. My Aura's backseat though is in pristine condition because I probably could count on one hand how many people sat in the back seat in the cars 10 year history. Heck, my preferred car would be a Corvette Stingray Z51, but that car is way outside of my budget. Not that the Camaro SS is a compromise though.
Well it sounds like maybe your next car might have to be an manual then. To each his own.
The 1-4 skip does seem like an awful awful awful way to kill the driving experience. I certainly don't blame you there. Talk about electrical nannying. I would disable that upon delivery of the car. They should at least allow a menu function to disable that. The car would still get the same gas mileage... as long as you don't disable the function. I don't see why the EPA would object to that. What next? Dump the automatic and throw in a CVT.
As for the R solinoid lock, I wouldn't be too concerned. By default the solonoid locks out the R gear, so even if it failed you'd have a greater chance of just not being able to get into R (perhaps it has a manually override to unlock in case of failure it like most a/t cars). Assuming it's a remotely reliable part, by the time it broke you'd probably have the muscle memory down not to shift into R. I'd suspect even with the solinoid removed your chance of actually engaging the transmission into reverse would be very unlikely. Being a modern synchromesh transmission would inherently protect against damage caused by getting into R. In older transmissions it would simply be very difficult to get the car into reverse to cause significant damage (provided you don't hold it there and make the mistake frequently).
Hell, back in the day my dad had a 1996 Suburban. We hit a bump and my dad's coffee partially spilled out from that awful pull-out cupholder in the dash. Some of the coffee spilled onto the 2WD/4HI/4LOW control buttons. My mom hasitly trying to clean it up hit the 4WD high range button... while we were going 70mph down the highway. The system allowed for on the fly 4WD engagement, but not at highway speeds or on dry pavement. Immediately there was an awful grinding noise and it took about 5-8 seconds to realize the 4WD was trying to engage and switch back to 2WD. Luckily no damage done to the transfercase.
I had a couple friends and a GF with manuals back in high school, so I got some practice in. My dad also has a couple classics with manuals, but he seldom let me drive those. My grandfather also has a manual Taco used exclusively beach house for towing the boat he never uses and yard work/maintence (it's a 2002 w/probably 20,000 miles- must be worth $25,000 :rolleyes). I can say you pick up the skill quickly. After that you learn to gain finesse... that's part of the fun. My biggest trouble in the beginng was releasing the clutch to reverse.
Rev matching can be done without the car doing it for you. Again, that's one of the fun skills to work on. Rather than the car dipping the throttle you do it yourself. My friend taught me on his WRX. You don't have to do it, but it creates smoother, faster downshifts, AND, like you said, sounds cool.
Personally I don't think I could get by with something like a Camaro/Mustang (independent of it being RWD in New England and not really being my thing). Just yesterday I had to borrow a ladder and it just barely squeaked into my trunk. Or those trips to Costco!