Good tips, and good insight. Since you're not indoctrinated into the cult, your feedback is really helpful
When I've mentioned [to a "fanboy"], "Oh, sitting at a designated charge spot for 30 minutes waiting for a charger, is a minor concern of mine", they get all cranky
So I've used ABRP in the past, set my account back up, set the car to a TM3 Performance, tested a few routes.
Our St. Aug to Universal, no stop, plenty of charging options at the resorts we stay at (heck, it could almost go round trip). Our standard trip to our place in The Keys (Tavernier), we do the Keys trip without needing a stop in the DD/RT, and that's with 6 people / 6 rollers and two massive tubs of dive gears on a hitch carrier - using the TM3P, it shows one stop, not too bad, but it's the longer trips where I think I start having some issues
Our FL to PA trip, is ~860 miles, close to 14 hours travel time, but 2 hours of charging time. We usually stop about half way, maybe closer to like 60% of the trip, in NC (fun hotel at the Shelton Vineyards), there's a charging stop in Mount Airy, that's almost the same location, might could swap hotels. I guess I'd consider that stop to fill to 100% (a "long break" on ABRP), which vary the other parts of the trip, looks like it removes a quick stop. A little longer charge time, but some of that is a complete stop anyway (in NC).
I see your TX to VA plots at 1451 miles, ~23 hours, so assuming you did a few overnight stops[?] (I don't do more than like 7, maybe 8 hours at a stretch). According to ABRP, that's nearly 4 hours of charge time. They plot out a lot of short stops, I also see $61 for charging cost (though that's about a 1/3 of what our DD/RT would cost).
Anyway, just kind of ruminating over our standard trips, heck, we probably won't even do that PA trip again (at least driving).