I'm in a similar situation. My non-shipped order line all the way at the top of the order tracking spreadsheet is surrounded by a sea of orders that've already shipped. O Apple, why have you forsaken me?
When folks go to the Apple Store and wait in line for a new product, it is understandable that sometimes you cannot get what you want if it has already sold out etc. On the other hand, when we can plainly see the same configuration ship to folks who ordered HOURS after we did, that indicates that something fishy is going on. Although it is true that Apple never said that they would take orders in the order that they were placed, it is clear that "January" vs "February" was based upon the time of the order.
Apple never considered that customers would crowdsource the order system - and in light of that they owe it to everyone to own up to what the heck they are doing.
As some on this thread blindly say that Apple is still delivering on their "promise" as long as they ship in January, that is actually not true. January is 31 days - not 1 day, January 31. If the bulk of orders ship in the last week, then Apple should have said that up front - or at the least updated their own system so that valued customers could see the reason for a delay.
My main problem with this whole fiasco is the lack of information. When I placed my order in the wee hours of the night on 12/19, I anticipated that "ships January" would likely be updated as the supplies were adjusted for manufacturing parts availability.
I am a developer. I make a lot of money selling iOS/OS X apps. I help the Apple ecosystem because my former Windows customers specifically buy Apple devices to run my software. I have enormous respect for Apple and their corporate culture. However, this entire debacle has truly soured my view of Apple.