I'm going from an XS Max to an XR so I guess you could say I'm downgrading lol
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However I wanted the XR the day they unveiled it. I only ended up with a Max as it was due in my upgrade time and I wanted to get it to see how I'd get on with the larger device. I like it a lot, but it's just slightly too unwieldy but I now find the XS (reg size) to be a touch too small.
The XR is bang in between and looks like a great size. The extra depth to the device should also help as my one complaint with iPhones the last few years has been how slim they are which make them even harder to hold without a case.
I also love the colours and prefer LCD displays in the sun as they're often brighter.
So yes, kind of in the same boat.
And undecided on colour... still!