Just chiming in to say that some of the cheap USB-C dongles with gigabit ethernet also come with NCM-capable ASIX chipsets instead of Realtek ones: the chipset in the no-name unbranded one I was just gifted (ASIX AX88179A) is listed as using the NCM driver on my 14" MBP running Monterey.
Of course given that it's unbranded, I can't easily find a link to the product to recommend. Maybe a good community project here would be a database of the chipset vendor/product IDs in different USB-C devices so buying these things isn't such a gamble!
There is a list maintained here (not mine):
Thunderbolt and PCIe Ethernet in macOS
So with the purchase of a 14” MacBook Pro, I’ve been in the market to buy a Thunderbolt dock to live to 1 cable life style. Unfortunately it’s been a bit difficult to find much information on the parts used in many docks, thus I’ve decided to document my research on Ethernet controllers built...
khronokernel.github.io
Be interesting to know whether ASIX AX88179A is different from ASIX AX88179, which reportedly requires a macos driver, listed on the list on the link above.