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Just a few tricksters here this afternoon, likely due to sudden sleet and cold. But we always welcome children every year as this is their time for fun. Some of the costumes are funny, fantastic, and very original. I remember enjoying the event so much when growing up, it would be impossible for me to deny the same enjoyment to the young. And how hard is it to open the door for a few hours once a year to share some sweets and joy? Too little of these days in this world.
Many of the Halloween costumes for kids this year are fun and thoughtful. I like days like this.
 

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I also hate how it's so commercialized (like EVERY OTHER HOLIDAY!).
On this, we are in complete agreement.

However, Hallowe'en - one of those Christian celebrations grafted onto an ancient pagan festival, - one which celebrated and saluted the dead - is a legtimate and ancient feast in northern Europe.

While I detest the commercialisation, I do recognise the authenticity and the traditions of the actual feast days at that time of the year.

And I like the idea of the celebration of this tradition for kids.
If I'm being totally honest, Thanksgiving is the only holiday I actually like all that much.
That one is unique to the US, and is not celebrated elsewhere.
 
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However, Hallowe'en - one of those Christian celebrations grafted onto an ancient pagan festival, - one which celebrated and saluted the dead - is a legtimate and ancient feast in northern Europe.

While I detest the commercialisation, I do recognise the authenticity and the traditions of the actual feast days at that time of the year.

And I like the idea of the celebration of this tradition for kids.
Yeah, that's something I always forget—the actual history of the holiday. But it's never talked about for some reason, I wonder why...

Halloween was a really big deal at my high school, and we'd have some special assembly where people would show off their costumes. I, for whatever reason, have never enjoyed it enough to participate, even when I was younger.
 

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Yeah, that's something I always forget—the actual history of the holiday. But it's never talked about for some reason, I wonder why...

Halloween was a really big deal at my high school, and we'd have some special assembly where people would show off their costumes. I, for whatever reason, have never enjoyed it enough to participate, even when I was younger.
Halloween wasn’t much of a celebration when I was a kid. Hardly even noticeable. But it’s been popularised by US films and shows. Plus it’s another payday for stores that sell the crap.

I don’t celebrate (acknowledge) any holidays to be honest. There are 365 days in the year. None are more special than any other. Well apart from weekends!
 

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23 sets?

I'm impressed.

In a downpour?

(I see the downpour; we've had it here all evening).

I'm even more impressed.

There aren't all that many kids where I am, although, there are a few, as a number of the houses on the road (a long one, with several houses dating from the Edwardian era, some from the interwar period, some from the 50s, and 60s, and 70s, plus a few large detached oddities from the 80s) had been sold as a result of executor sales, resulting in a sort of slight generational change, with some younger families plus kids turning up.

It’s the most we’ve ever had an I have the exact figure due to our Ring doorbell camera lol. Last year from memory I think we had 17 lots. Now, these are not all children it’s sad to say, some are late teens and one last night I am convinced was a man on his own which I found odd. Here he is:

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I asked him if he’d left his kids at home and he just laughed and took a couple of bags of sweets. I think I he would have scared the elderly.
 

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I actually like the change of seasons and the change of year etc. Also, all the festivals, Halloween (yes, it's got too US/commercialised but then I guess so has everything), bonfire night and Christmas. As Sceptical Scribe says they root us in a dim very distant past and our attempts to keep the darkness from rising. Looks like the howing wild hunt is about to visit over the next day or two though...

In terms of Halloween, there always seems to have been a rule around us - if you have decorations (a pumpkin etc) out then they'll knock but if not you get left alone. Parents also always seem to accompany them these days. Perhaps its because our patch tends to feature on the news fairly often ;-) There's also something really sweet about a gaggle of little excited kids in silly costumes tanking up the road shrieking and laughing...
 
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Our neighborhoods used to be packed on Halloween. Then all these “trunk-or-treats” started which pretty much killed the neighborhoods. We haven’t seen trick-or-treaters in years.
 
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It’s the most we’ve ever had an I have the exact figure due to our Ring doorbell camera lol. Last year from memory I think we had 17 lots. Now, these are not all children it’s sad to say, some are late teens and one last night I am convinced was a man on his own which I found odd. Here he is:

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I asked him if he’d left his kids at home and he just laughed and took a couple of bags of sweets. I think I he would have scared the elderly.
To be honest that’s exactly the type of thing I dislike about trick or treating. I can well imagine how that would look to an elderly neighbour.
 

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I actually like the change of seasons and the change of year etc. Also, all the festivals, Halloween (yes, it's got too US/commercialised but then I guess so has everything), bonfire night and Christmas. As Sceptical Scribe says they root us in a dim very distant past and our attempts to keep the darkness from rising. Looks like the howing wild hunt is about to visit over the next day or two though...

In terms of Halloween, there always seems to have been a rule around us - if you have decorations (a pumpkin etc) out then they'll knock but if not you get left alone. Parents also always seem to accompany them these days. Perhaps its because our patch tends to feature on the news fairly often ;-) There's also something really sweet about a gaggle of little excited kids in silly costumes tanking up the road shrieking and laughing...
That’s how it should be. If you decorate your house you are happy to participate. If you don’t then leave us alone.
Same with Christmas carolling. No decorations don’t come knocking.
 
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Now, these are not all children it’s sad to say, some are late teens and one last night I am convinced was a man on his own which I found odd. Here he is:
Distinctly odd, and rather unsettling, to put it mildly.
I asked him if he’d left his kids at home and he just laughed and took a couple of bags of sweets. I think I he would have scared the elderly.
Not at all funny.

What on earth was he playing at?
To be honest that’s exactly the type of thing I dislike about trick or treating. I can well imagine how that would look to an elderly neighbour.
Agreed.

Now, while I am a big fan of celebrating the traditions that surround the ancient feast of Hallowe'en - especially given how this festival facilitates dealing with the topic of death - (and the deceased) - in a way that allows this to take place and also allows children to explore these concepts in a safe way - and am a big fan of trick and treat (especially if supervised intelligently by parents), this is the sort of thing that really irks me.

"Playful" adult males - such as the clown pictured - are an absolute menace, and - irrespective of intention - can come across as threatening.

It is one thing to deal with feasts (and fears) celebrating death and the departed with wit and laughter by donning costumes and dressing up, it is quite another to strike fear into people - yes, the elderly, yes, women - for example, single mothers - by behaving - or conducting yourself - in such a manner.

That chap ought to be ashamed of himself.
 
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To be honest that’s exactly the type of thing I dislike about trick or treating. I can well imagine how that would look to an elderly neighbour.
Indeed. I can't imagine as a grown man going out trick or treating on my own to be honest, it is beyond creepy IMO. He probably wanted money more than anything, but I draw the line at sweets. I don't generally answer the door to adults doing it but when I saw him on the camera I had to answer just to make the point he was being weird lol. I didn't let the kids come to the door on this one.
 

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Indeed. I can't imagine as a grown man going out trick or treating on my own to be honest, it is beyond creepy IMO. He probably wanted money more than anything, but I draw the line at sweets. I don't generally answer the door to adults doing it but when I saw him on the camera I had to answer just to make the point he was being weird lol. I didn't let the kids come to the door on this one.
However, if, as you say, he laughed, he probably didn't think he was being weird and downright unsettling, still less was prepared to own and take responsibility for his odd behaviour.

Unpleasant, and unsettling, to say the very least.
 

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Indeed. I can't imagine as a grown man going out trick or treating on my own to be honest, it is beyond creepy IMO. He probably wanted money more than anything, but I draw the line at sweets. I don't generally answer the door to adults doing it but when I saw him on the camera I had to answer just to make the point he was being weird lol. I didn't let the kids come to the door on this one.
Sorry, but I have to say his appearance made the atmosphere feel like in a horror movie.
 
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Never been a fan. It used to put Miss AFB on edge people knocking on the door when she was younger. Having to sit in the dark so people would assume we were out.
I don’t miss those days.

Random strangers knocking on your door and asking for sweets is a very strange idea. Thankfully not one I have to deal with anymore.

Not that we ever have any sweets in the house of course!
When we arrived in Scotland 30 years ago from the US, we went trick or treating with the kids when they were old enough to understand, except where we were at that time, the tradition was guising, which is not a perfunctory trick-or-treat, but we were invited into the neighbours' homes and each kid had to do an act or tell a joke. And the carvings were in turnips, not pumpkins. The good news is that despite my ex's English stereotype of the Scots, there were no animal or human sacrifices of any kind.
 

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You ditch shorts and sandals at below 5C??

Is there anti-freeze instead of blood in your veins and arteries? I think our respective bodies respond very ddifferently to the ambient temperature.

Me, I ditch shorts (or, rather, I do not don them) at anything under 21C (70F), preferably 22-23C, if then; otherwise, I would have goosepimples (goosebumps) the size of golf-balls on the relevant parts of my anatomy.

Heh. You're not the first to ask me such a question. I always figured it was my Swedish heritage (I'm about a 3-way split between Swedish, German and British with a dash of Native American thrown in). Anything above 15C in pants and I start to sweat.

Outside of summer, I keep my house between 18-20C though I will let it float down to 15 C overnight in winter. Last year, we stayed in one of those canvas type cabins with no heating except for an electric blanket with overnight temps only a couple degrees above 0C (roughly 35-36F). I started off with the blanket set on high in long johns (long pants?) but I started sweating. After awhile, I figured out that I was perfectly fine under the covers with shorts, t-shirt, and the blanket set at around medium-low. Everyone else was bundled with their blankets cranked to high.

I run hot, especially my legs.
 

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Heh. You're not the first to ask me such a question. I always figured it was my Swedish heritage (I'm about a 3-way split between Swedish, German and British with a dash of Native American thrown in). Anything above 15C in pants and I start to sweat.

Outside of summer, I keep my house between 18-20C though I will let it float down to 15 C overnight in winter. Last year, we stayed in one of those canvas type cabins with no heating except for an electric blanket with overnight temps only a couple degrees above 0C (roughly 35-36F). I started off with the blanket set on high in long johns (long pants?) but I started sweating. After awhile, I figured out that I was perfectly fine under the covers with shorts, t-shirt, and the blanket set at around medium-low. Everyone else was bundled with their blankets cranked to high.

I run hot, especially my legs.
I used to be mine that. But as I’ve aged I feel the cold much more than I used to.
 
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In truth, it is one of the seasonal festivals (and one with a deep, and ancient, history and tradition) that I don't much mind; much of it - as is the case with Christmas - are Christian ceremonies (and more recent post Christian commercial imperatives) grafted onto pagan ceremonies and traditions.

As spring heralds birth (or re-birth), so the Hallowe'en festival (in the Celtic traditions, certainly), has been all about death, and dealing with - acknowledging, recognising, and saluting - death, and, as a part of that, also making the time to greet people whom you loved who are no longer in the land of the living. And many of the Hallowe'en festival traditios have been about conquering the fear of death, by addressing it openly, as a sort of pantomine, or festival, where you dressed up.

My father often used to take some time to visit the graves of his own parents at that (this) time of the year, he would be gone for much of the day, departing unconscionably early in the morning, and never encouraged - or wished - our presence, on these trips; he would then take the time immediately after that to pay a personal visit to his sister, my aunt, who still worked at the post office until well into her eighties; this was something private and personal to him.

Yeah, that's a kind of a holiday I could get behind. In recent years, it's been all about the creep factor or the "gotcha" factor or some BS. Jack-o-lanterns were meant to ward off evil spirits, but the types of decorations these days would be more likely to attract evil spirits, not ward them off (if there's such a thing).

Hispanic cultures here in the US practice Dia De Los Muerte. Not sure how similar it is in Spain, but the way it's practiced here sounds very much like how you describe.

Btw, as an American, I apologize for the commercialized BS that my country has subjected to you folks across the Atlantic.
 
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If I'm being totally honest, Thanksgiving is the only holiday I actually like all that much.

I still like Christmas, but I agree. Too bad Thanksgiving is slowly being erased. Kind of cracks me up how some people go bonkers when anyone talks about possibly maybe no Christmas (and its always unserious) but they don't utter a peep about Thanksgiving's slow erasure.
 

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It’s the most we’ve ever had an I have the exact figure due to our Ring doorbell camera lol. Last year from memory I think we had 17 lots. Now, these are not all children it’s sad to say, some are late teens and one last night I am convinced was a man on his own which I found odd. Here he is:

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I asked him if he’d left his kids at home and he just laughed and took a couple of bags of sweets. I think I he would have scared the elderly.

I don't know why, but that made me think of the grown up trick or treat'er from last years "Halloween" Doctor Who special. I think it's the one where that guy Dan was kidnapped by a space dog.
 
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And the carvings were in turnips, not pumpkins.
When I was growing up in the 70s we never understood how Halloween lanterns we saw on US TV shows could look so detailed and big - I mean have you ever tried to carve a turnip? You started full of enthusiasm but it always ended up with a lost temper and a fair few plasters over your inevitable minor injuries and despite all the effort you always, always, ended up with something that looked like a drunken emoji. Plus once you finally got a candle in there (with it's ill fitting lid) and lit it the whole thing stank like a burning compost heap.

The yoof of today don't know they're born...
 

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I don't know why, but that made me think of the grown up trick or treat'er from last years "Halloween" Doctor Who special. I think it's the one where that guy Dan was kidnapped by a space dog.

I’ll take your word for it, never really watched it apart from one episode I was an extra in back in 2005/6 time. I lived in Cardiff and a mate of mine was a regular extra in Doctor Who and Torchwood. I went along and got paid £50 to pretend to chat in the background of a scene or two. I was also in an episode of Pobl Y Cwm which is a Welsh speaking soap and rather rubbish lol. No masks involved in either sadly
 
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