Normal friends are overrated btw
I don't know if they're overrated all the time. Definitely some are though. I'm really trying to grow my friend group OUTSIDE the conservatory. Actually, I should put it this way--I don't have any friends who are NOT musicians. So I'm trying to do that. But then what would we talk about? They aren't musicians. Sports? Don't care about that. Popular TV shows? Also don't care about that.
I am curious to know about people's lives - their education, work, hobbies, etc. That's what I ask people about. If they're musicians, then of course that's a different kind of relationship. But I honestly have NEVER heard ANY group of people in the dining hall, for instance, talk about history - or literature, or chemistry, or any other area of study. Unless they're complaining about their classes. Not to say that that doesn't exist, I've just never witnessed or partaken in it. Music on the other hand is freely and frequently discussed. That's really interesting, I've actually never thought about that.
I really hate the classic "going out with friends thing." THAT is definitely overrated. I'd much rather just one friend come over and we can watch a movie or something. I'm certainly not one for going to the mall (yes, I know people who do that), or the arcade, or the movie theater, etc. Nor am I one for enormous parties, unless it's with family (we've had some of those).
Also, my parents have established dozens of friendships through work, which seems like a rarity. It seems to me their coworkers get along so well that they can be actual friends and go out together, etc. My dad's been at the same place for 30 years, and so have some of his colleagues, so I guess that makes sense. Don't know how my mom did it though. Probably mostly luck, to be honest. And the fact that both are extroverted people.