That doesn't sound weird at all. I have the same two cases and use the Sheath when I think the phone may be handled a little rougher. I love the light weight of the Totallee, but sometimes prefer the slightly heavier/sturdier feel of the Sheath case. If I had kids playing with my phone, the Totallee would be outta sight on those days for sure...My phone is back in the Sheath. While I really, really liked the Totallee glossy clear (soft) because of how thin it is and how nice the phone looked inside the case, I found myself handling the phone gingerly because I was afraid of dropping it. I had absolutely no confidence in its protection, so I was constantly worried of the phone slipping out of my hand. (I have a 5-year-old niece that likes to use my phone to play Minecraft and ROBLOX, so that doesn't help.) I think I also missed the weight a slightly thicker case gives the phone. I know it sounds weird - I'm worried about dropping my phone but like a heavier phone - but the weight gives me a sense of security for some reason.
But there are no kids around today, so I am enjoying the Totallee. I love the look and feel, and I think it's actually a little more grippy than the Sheath.