And I think you're taking a longer break than most. When I drive long distances, unless it's a scheduled stop for a real sit down dinner (like on a multi-state road trip) we stop for the amount of time it takes to fill the tank + bathroom. Someone else has to wait in line for food while the gas is pumping to reduce the amount of time not moving at 70+mph.
Because in reality, we're driving to get somewhere, not to wait around mid trip.
I'm trying to be fair to the comparison. Lets say you are doing a solo trip (which most of the time, my long road trips are), and you are going through a congested area like the Eastern or Western corridor in the US. This is where you would be more likely to find EV chargers.
Assume waiting 5-10 or so minutes for a pump, 5-10 minutes to fill, then another 10 or so minutes to park, use the bathroom and get food. So 20-30 isn't all that crazy. If you are traveling with someone else, yes, you can overlap some of the time for waiting for food, but you would still have to account for pump wait, filling, parking, and your bathroom use.
One of my last stops on the way back from FL last weekend at a Pilot (Flying J) there was a 15-20 minute wait in line for Subway (the only fast food at that stop). I ended up avoiding it, and grabbing a prepackaged turkey wrap from the convenient side of the Pilot. This Subway wait, would provide another 15-20 minutes of charging time.
I am not against EV, I am just looking for a way to say it can replace someone's only vehicle. For me, this would require the ability to charge on road trips, in about the same amount of time it takes for an ICE vehicle to (stop, use the restroom, wait in line and get food).
My wife knows how serious I am about not stopping unless it is absolutely needed... On our last trip, she got and wore adult diapers, just incase (never ended up needing them).