They've been making decisions for the sake of it for a long time. I don't like it.
What's happening lately isn't really progress, it's regression. We're looking at a Flat UI that harks back to the early computing days. Makes no sense to me. Meanwhile we're getting bugs and more bugs, something once thought as normal for Android, not Apple devices. The 'it just works' mantra is not as relevant today as it was when Steve Jobs and Scott Forstall were at the helm. Also, many people are just complacent today and accept what they're given even if they don't like it. The responses I often see are 'just get used to it' or 'you'll accept it given enough time'
Well, sure, I guess if my home was located next to brand new constructed sewer or pig farm, I'd just get used to the smell and not notice it, but that doesn't mean it's a good thing. If one has to adjust to it, it's not done right in the first place. If the change were really a good thing, it would be accepted out the gate. Otherwise, when customers complain, you as a company should change it back. At least, until you perfect said change. Or give the option to not have the change and please more people.
I don't want to accept or tolerate something that makes the experience worse for me. If the previous version worked perfectly fine just leave it alone. Of course, with me disabling updates, and barring future purchases until skeuo returns, I'm no longer vulnerable to this issue. I've done what I could to undo some of Big Sur's changes but now I'm pretty much left with a better Mojave. I would love if I could go to Mountain Lion's UI and apps. Would love to go to a iPhone 3GS again even if it meant losing Apple Watch. That UI was second to none. (of course, If I got a cellular Watch I could have both 3GS and Apple Watch if I set up the watch first with my 6S)
One day I'll get an older Mac running what I want, and an older iPhone. Until then, I'll do what I can to keep the skeuo and enjoyment of owning an Apple product going.
Other than AirPods Pro, nothing Apple or anyone is doing today makes me want to go out and buy it.