flat, that is so true but by controlling the accessories it should give you some sort of assurance as to the quality of the product. Usually, if that control isn't happening, all sorts of bad quality gear pops up, and for those that only look at the price tag, it usually goes south, stuff breaks easily and you end up buying a better one anyway. I don't like to spend more money on anything of course, but I rather buy decent stuff from the get go than having to waste my time changing bad parts all the time.
maybe not so much about quality control worries as safety control..
"girl electrocuted by iPhone" is a pr nightmare compared to "my iphone cable is frayed".
shady 3rd party parts can lead to "iphone killed person".. it has happened but apple can prevent it now. (or- prevent much of it)
(not saying this is THE reason for proprietary connectors.. just one of the more positive reasons)