I can give you the answer right away, because we already had this 20 times during the 100 pages: Expected Behavior ...
Apart from that, what does engineer mean here? Are we talking about someone on the phone who has to unwind his program or someone who knows really something about hard- and software and is allowed to do something? Because I don't think so.
I'm Italian, so probably I won't get the same answer right away. I recorded a bunch of logs with a technician over the phone and he sent everything to the engineering department and they confirmed the issue.
I read all 115 pages of this thread before even starting discussing about the problem, so I know exactly that a lot of people already got an answer from Apple.
The answer they gave me is that this is not suppose to happen and that they will replace my laptop if that fix it. I told them that I already demonstrated at a Genius Bar that the same thing happens with all the others Macbook pro 16, with various cables and monitors.
I also showed them that I am unable to work, because after an hour of two of continuous use, my macbook starts being unresponsive because of the kernel_tasks process, spawning even at 0% CPU usage, and at 70° celsius.
I'm not concerned about the longevity of the laptop, battery swelling or other problems. I'm concerned about not being able to work continuously because my macbook overheats and slows down. I work as a programmer, but in September when university restarts I'll need to use a lot more resources, as I am a Product Design student.
EDIT: One last thing. I don't want to be fooled by some mediocre engineers who says that everything is right when clearly is not. There's no way that a gpu needs to be at full clocks to run an external monitor, and even if it needs, I expect to see a a different power consumption based on the current resolution on the external monitor. Less pixels = less power = less power consumption.