The only thing broken about the 16" MBP it is the external monitor issue. Other than that I 100% love this laptop. Best laptop I had by far, nothing in the market comes close to this laptop in terms of display, battery(I get 8-9 hours on battery doing office, programming, running servers, Zoom, Discord, Spotify, Safari), speakers, build quality, trackpad and sync between other apple devices. It's silent when not using the external monitor.I'm officialy giving up and won't buy MBP 16.
My currently mpb 13" 2018 have again an issue with keyboard (double character with one press) so I will probably just
get a new MBP 13" 2020 with new keyboard OR get a mac mini with eGPU to connect 2x 4k 27" (as mbp 13" can't handle it to be honest).
Sad, soo sad that the mbp 16" is so broken
IMO, if external monitor is not at all needed go for the 16".
The 13" 2020 is due to get Apple Sillicon, wait for that if you plan to get the MBP 13".
Anyway, I now now use Synergy and use my desktop as an external monitor(27"). I can use my MBP keyboard and trackpad with my Windows PC. For now that's the best solution for me, I get my laptop screen to be open with the dGPU off but the get the real estate of the 27".