There is no big loss for anyone if Apple addresses this issue/non-issue. Even Apple would pay very little to make it 16GB vs. 8GB, since one can buy 1 stick of DDR5 16GB at full retail markup for under $50. How long has Apple clung to 8GB now? And every 8GB Mac purchased today is going to have to still work well with 8GB for the next 7 years or so.
I can just as readily extend this argument to pretty much any situation where upselling exists. Why should I have to pay extra to upsize my McDonalds value meal, rather than have it come default with large fries and coke? Can you imagine how much might end up being wasted if everyone was being given more food and drink than they might otherwise be able to finish?
My answer to this is - you have just made a case for why you feel Apple
should have 16gb ram as default in their Macs, not why they
must do so. At the end of the day, Apple operates on a profit-maximising principle, similar to any other company out there. While this may sound like loaded terminology, the idea underlying the strategy is straightforward. Instead of Apple including a certain amount of “tax” or premium in a product’s price to maintain a specific gross margin percentage, I believe Apple prices its products in a way that maximises grosss margin (cost of goods subtracted from revenue) and revenue on an absolute basis.
At the same time, when it comes to how Apple prices various accessories like dongles, watch bands, and iPad keyboards, the company isn’t relying on an Apple tax. Instead, accessories by their very nature have high gross margins given that the items are sold to customers looking to personalize their experience. I will argue that a similar philosophy applies to Mac memory and storage upgrades. While those upgrades are indeed profitable for Apple, the fact that Apple charges the prices they do is not a sign of Apple users being held hostage and forced to pay an Apple Tax. Instead, positioning certain items as accessories or upgrades plays a role in Apple keeping entry-level product pricing low for the mass market.
It's easy for anyone here to say "Apple makes so much money. They can easily afford to include more ram or an extra charger for free and still make a ton of money", and it's hard to argue against being given free stuff which doesn't cost me anything. While that may be true, it also represents a slippery slope. You are basically saying that everyone should be given more ram and storage in their laptops regardless of whether they need it or not, just so you can get your ram upgrade for free.
There is no question that Apple has a large base of loyal, satisfied users. Contrary to how some may frame it, we are not in any way being held captive by Apple, and therefore forced to pay high Apple prices. It’s easy to look at Apple pricing and take a cynical view that management is trying to squeeze as much profit as possible from its users. However, I maintain that Apple’s incentive isn’t to milk users for all they can but rather to expand the Apple user base and provide users great experiences.
This is why Apple is able to garner the lion's share of profits in so many different markets. Not by overcharging for ram (the money they earn from this is honestly small potatoes), but by monetizing premium experiences much more effectively and efficiently than anyone else.
If none of you can see this, then I can only say - you don't understand business in general, you have never understood how Apple worked, and you (sadly) never will.