In the same boat now. Brand new a couple days back. Goes to 1% by the following afternoon. In the case. I know this has been beaten to death, but why did Apple not just implement a on/off button? Ya I know Apple wants to be on this ahead of the curve type of kick, but sometimes tried and true methods don't need to be mucked with.
Reading this thread people have had success, temporarily, in resetting the cans. I don't think this is an hardware issue, so replacing them thinking that will solve the issue isn't happening. There is a flaw in the software, something is remaining active while not in use. And I refuse to turn off BT as a bandaid to fix an issue on $550 dollar headphones..