My first post in this thread so thought I'd answer the original question...
I am tired of the large form factor - it still baffles me how anyone can claim they can comfortably keep an 8+, XS Max or XR in their jeans/trouser pocket. Sure if you stay still standing up, but any kind of sitting/bending/movement, unless you are wearing baggy jeans or something, is going to cause problems or be noticeable. I don't want to have to be conscious of feeling a bulky phone against my leg all day.
I know it's a different story for women or anyone that permanently keeps that phone in a bag, but for most other people, I just don't get how you put up with it. I mean, the XS Max is an $1100 phone.....you're telling me that wearing regular trousers/jeans and that in your front or rear pocket, isn't at risk of getting crushed/damaged/bent? I don't believe you...and don't say "I just take it out of my pocket when I sit down"...that doesn't work for most people in the real world and is just additional hassle.
I also have small hands, so using anything above a phone the size of a 7 or 8 means I need both hands and I prefer one handed usage.
However...
I love the bigger screens.
If Apple released an iPhone similar in size to an SE, but with an edge-to-edge display/larger screen, I'd be throwing my money at Apple. Would happily pay $1,000 for something like that.
So in summary...yes I hate bigger phones and I'm tired of them, but I love bigger screens.