i shouldn't have to spend $1000 to get a smaller phone than the $750 iPhone XR.
There should absolutely be a smaller, affordable upgrade for an iPhone 6s, iPhone 7 user. There just isn't now.
Yeah this is the odd situation this year and I’m not sure why Apple chose to satisfy Plus users with a XR rather than those with standard iPhone 7 size devices. I’m a plus user myself but still see far more smaller iPhones in use in the wild.
My wife had the same issue as yours in that she was due an upgrade recently. Coming from an SE she really wasn’t going to go for the XR and had to settle for the iPhone 8. Short sighted of Apple to only cater for some of their market this year I think. Maybe we’ll see 2 variants in 2019?