Because its never been something youve had to conceal. Having role models, having someone you can think of as oh, they are gay/black/trans/latino/disabled/bisexual/asian and they are still great at what they do is unbelievably, until you have faced that lack of representation in the media you can never, and will never understand it.
but i think thats the point he's attempting to make.
He hopes that one day it will no longer be news, not because there aren't gays, but because its perfectly accepted as normal. That the sexual orientation of people are kept private and have no impact on how anyone is treated.
I long for that ideal to. That doesn't mean I'm not supporting of equality. it means i long for equality. Where Tim cook doesn't have to come out to be a gay role model. Where kids can grow up gay, straight, bi, trans, cis, or whatever thing that makes them happy, without the fear or need for a role model to give them hope. They should have hope without that.
I understand we are not there yet though. I've seen friends fight over it. I've seen people my age (30's) still hiding from their families.
I long for the day that a gay couple can walk down the street holding hands as equally as straight people, without anyone judging.