Since the Apple website won't let me order the band separately, that solution is not a solution. No need to reply.Order a band separately. If you do that now, it will probably arrive before the watch. When the watch arrives, attach the band you purchased separately. Very simple. Why are you arguing over something that can get you the watch faster? If you have a store near by, exchange the band that came with the watch.
If you can't figure out what I am conveying in simple terms, I am done replying.