I'd suggest new plastic snap rivets over anything else. Chinese seller shave them on eBay. I'll measure one later so I can give exactly dimensions. These worked fine in my Mac Pro. The only thing I had to do was shave the top nub off one of them so that it would fit underneath that part of one of the CPU heatsinks which covers half of the Northbridge heatsink, on my dual-socket 4,1.
EDIT: the eBay link above shows the correct rivets. They really work. Shaving the nub off one isn't a big deal either; use a power tool or an Xacto knife. Also make sure to cut off the cylindrical piece that surrounds the spring. Once the spring is depressed, that housing will be pushed upwards and surpass the height of the nub. You don't want that, because that defeats the purpose of having shaved the nub down. At least, from what I can tell, I needed to do that. Or, perhaps, it was just precautionary step. I didn't ever check to see if the housing would actually surpass the nub's shorter height.
What about these ones:
http://www.ebay.de/itm/291710483623?_trksid=p2057872.m2749.l2649&ssPageName=STRK:MEBIDX:IT
They should fit too!?