I don't know how to explain this any more simply. If a MFT sensor and a FF sensor have the same total number of megapixels, the MFT's sensor sites are 1/4 the size. They are NOT THE SAME SIZE.
I agree. I never said ANYTHING about the # of megapixels. Again, consider a FF sensor and m4/3 sensor *cut from the same silicon*.
Obviously, this is hypothetical. An 18MP m4/3 sensor will not have the same noise performance as an 18MP FF sensor, but that doesn't have anything WHATSOEVER to do with the sensor size. It has to do with the size of the photosites collecting the light.
The effect of sensor size ALONE is only down to the amount the image must be enlarged.
Again, why does large format film show less grain than 35mm film for the same print size? It's because the LF film required less enlargement. Now, if you shoot ISO50 film in 35mm and ISO 1600 film in LF (akin to changing the photosite size in digital), then the grain might be similar in the end. But this doesn't have anything AT ALL to do with the size of the film.
And so it is with sensors.