I'm back in USA and in a Verizon service area, so these setting are no longer visible to me.
However, these are the steps I took: https://www.verizonwireless.com/support/knowledge-base-216198/
The goal seems to be to get the Verizon eSIM into a "No Service" state by picking a network it can't roam on - only then will it decide to connect via the other local SIM card provider. I'm not an expert and don't quite understand how this forces IMS (IP media subsystem) use - but this was my experience.
I put a more detailed summary here: https://www.howardforums.com/showth...-iOS-13-Dual-SIM-amp-IMS-(IP-Media-Subsystem)
you could have also downloaded the Message+ Verizon app. It’s meant to replicate your services (text, MMS & voice) on a secondary device but can easily be set up on your main phone. The calling option is only available if you turn the VZW SIM off but otherwise, it works great and no roaming if you’re using a local SIM or on WiFi.