I've had iPhones since they were first released. When the iPhone Xs was announced, Apple said the iPhone X was discontinued. Unlike other releases, they slapped the discontinued tag right on a phone that was just under a year old. That was some next level BS if you ask me. It is not that something new came out, it is how they decided to suddenly formally say a model was discontinued. I don't recall that ever being the case and to me, that said I could go F myself on support somewhere down the line. As I get older and more budget conscious, I simply don't jump to the new phones each year any longer. Slap a discontinued tag on it and I vote with my wallet. It doesn't hurt Apple, I'm one person, clearly.
I moved to a Note 9. I am impressed with how well it does things. I had some issues transferring contacts and such, but that had more to do with a decade in the Apple ecosystem than it did anything else. More or less, user error that caused slight frustration.
Since owning the Note 9 for a month now, I have enjoyed a few things about it. First, the battery life. Holy crap. Even a brand new iPhone didn't last me all day and well into a second day. I find attaching documents such as excel files and PDFs in email to handle better. I didn't think I cared about the stylus, but my Draw Something game is on point now and I've managed to sign a few PDFs and email them from the comfort of a bar on a Friday afternoon.
I don't love the messaging app. I moved to Messages+, maybe that's a Verizon thing, but it limits my messages. It wouldn't let me send a photo one day saying I exceeded my limit in storage. This was very untrue, it is a Message+ limitation. The native messaging app resulted in me not getting photos from iPhone users all of the time. Since I spend a good amount of my time sending BS photos back and forth, this mattered to me.
I haven't felt like there were any real downsides yet. I've had to learn how to do some things and such, but I'm a fairly sharp person and it didn't take me too long to figure out how to use my phone.
I am unsure if I'll go back to an iPhone. I happen to miss my Apple watch more than my iPhone. I assume I can solve that issue by buying a Samsung watch or any other watch that works with Android phones.