I disagree....in fact both companies advertise the quality for the camera in their phones. They advertise the use exactly as I tend to use them. Professional grade? No.........nor do i expect them to be. But i have gotten some great shots while outdoors from my smartphones.
"perfection is the enemy of good enough"
That applies to both of you when it comes to the use of a cell phone as a camera. Not saying you can't but for either of you to debate the quality of the camera on either the iPhone 6 vs the Note series in a cropping or zoom situation isn't really applicable considering you both are settling for a device that is out of place for the needs you're using it for. However good that need fits each of you. Again, everyone is entitled to what "good enough" means to them. That's cool, carry on.
To hold either phone or any phone to those situations is not appropriate when it comes to judging them for their intended use. Neither Apple nor Samsung is in a race to provide a camera with the ability to work in place of a lens with the proper focal length.
But i can see how some photography people would disagree. Thats ok....to each his own.