...maybe others are also feeling somewhat miffed as well?
No, not really!
But then I use Windows, WatchOS, iOS, and iPadOS, and not (yet) MacOS. I'm thinking of adding Mac but I'm not so simplistic as to think that in this age of the '20s, that I would just pick one computing platform to marry and go off on a honeymoon with, then be monogamous with it as my "one true love", making babies and grandkids and having a life of matrimonial bliss with it.
No, no, my house is basically "Casa la Computing Commune". I have the aforementioned OSs; some are better for gaming, others are better for getting directions in the car. Plus a whole bunch of Android and Linux children wandering and spilling milk or finger-painting the walls all over the house. Washer & Dryer buzzing my watch, microwave, car, garage door opener, NAS, irrigation system that automatically keeps the grass and flowers from drying out, television, music keyboard, electronic drum kit, control surfaces, computers, watches, tablets, and phones.
Not every device will be perfect, and no single device will become your soulmate. Your perspective is off-kilter, and I think maybe you just need a break to reset your thinking and expectations in life.
One thing is certain: if you're looking for monogamy from your technology, you're way off base, and instead you might be better to consider a human for that role. Or maybe a dog; they're quite loyal too.