"why did you have to tell us!?!??!"
"wow you're a fool!"
"why did you upgrade OS version?"
"you should have just made a backup, idiot!"
These are fine and fair responses to a post in this forum. See below for why.
8 pages of people being mad that someone decided to use a forum the way it was intended: to talk about their experiences and let others respond with their on topic experiences too. At least the OP had the foresight to place this thread in the "Alternatives to Mac" sub forum.
These other people are not mad at someone using the forum the way it was intended; in fact, those other people are also doing the same exact thing in using the forum in the way it was intended. However, their opposition to the OP is based on the attitude that the OP is bringing and lack of work that could have prevented the issue from ever occurring, and by extension, prevented his post and this thread from ever occurring.
We don't need 100 replies letting him know you still like macOS, we know, there are threads to post your positive experiences and love for the OS but this is not one of them. If you think the OP post was pointless then I'm sorry to tell you that your snarky responses are just as pointless if not baffling given you bothered to reply in the first place -- not to mention off topic in essence IMO. Can someone explain why we never see an equal number of "You didn't have to tell us" posts in threads from raving new macOS converts? You don't have to take it personally when someone doesn't like the same OS as you or has problems with it.
I don't think anyone is proclaiming undying love or fealty to MacOS. In fact, there have been plenty of people here saying to use the OS that is best for what one needs. In this case, however, the important word is
USE. From the OP's post, it was presented that the OP didn't
USE the OS to its potential; in particular, the
use of the tools to prevent any sort of disaster in which to recover from. That is also part of the USE of MacOS. But instead of looking into those tools to use, he chose to blame the OS for letting him down, when the onus to protect himself, his data, and the USE of his peripherals clearly fell upon him.
That isn't, once again, the fault of Apple; that is the fault of the user and the lack of USE of MacOS at hand. If that functionality was available since Leopard, that's 13 years worth of having the tools available to protect a user from any sort of disaster, let alone to recover back to the last best known working state. Why that wasn't used prior to any upgrade is only an answer that the OP can provide; to date, it hasn't been provided.
The OP post wasn't even asking for advice on fixing the issue, he's talking about the poor quality of software Apple are publishing these days and the methods they use to force you to upgrade OS version. I happen to agree with him on that.
What methods would this be?
"You don't have to upgrade OS" is such a flippant statement because it's another way of saying "You don't have to get new security upgrades or the latest features of the device you paid for."
If your Mac is still under active support, you do not, and are not actively forced to upgrade your version of MacOS. Users of Big Sur are not forced to upgrade to Monterey, as Big Sur is still supported. Users of Catalina are not forced to upgrade, as that is still supported. And even with that, those Macs that are still hardware supported are still good with security updates for their OS being used, if that OS is still supported.
And as the OP just found out, "latest features" != stability. I found that out with my MBA and High Sierra, which is why I dropped back to Sierra after High Sierra came out. I've been rock solid on Sierra and supported throughout the entire SDLC of Sierra, up until my Mac was moved to Obsolete status. Hell, even some security updates that were released are still available for my Mac, so to say that it is a flippant remark is disingenuous.
After a while the option to not upgrade becomes very difficult when the software you paid for (in particular the stuff on the Mac App Store) is no longer compatible with your version of OS, this is especially the case with software subscriptions that drop support for older versions (just look at what 1Password is doing).
That is different and irrelevant to the actual OS being upgraded the way that the OP upgraded. One should always...
ALWAYS see if the hardware and software requirements are met and/or supported by the hardware/software in general. If not, you have the choice: stay with what works and is stable, or upgrade and take the chance that your hardware doesn't work. The OP rolled the dice with the latter option, and rolled up snake-eyes; not once, but twice when you add in that the research into if his hardware will work with the upgrade was not done.
Again, that is on the OP, not the OS, and blaming the OS and everything around him for his lack of research is just as disingenuous. That is what everyone is in arms about. Like I said before; if that research was done and questions asked on if that hardware would be supported, then everyone here would have a lot more sympathy and empathize with the OP's woes. That wasn't done, so it is hard to show sympathy for when the lack of work was not done or shown; hence, the responses given.
BL.