“Nobody makes a perfect phone, much less so on the first couple of attempts.”
Uhm, Google has had YEARS to get the Pixel (almost) right on the first attempt because of the Nexus line. All they did was rename the phone to Pixel. Excuses, excuses.
Not that I need to explain myself, I’m on here because I’m genuinely interested in Android phones. Had a S8+ that disappointed me. Had 3 XL that disappointed me as well. I’m hoping that Google will prove me wrong with the 4. There’s nothing wrong with criticism. I criticize Apple constantly. That’s one reason why I frequent the Android section because I’m both happy and unhappy with the iPhone.
From my perspective, Nexus was a budget line and Pixel is a high mid-range device. Pixel 3 was not worth the retail cost at release. They shouldn't be selling this hardware at a flagship pricing. I don't anticipate this to change for Pixel 4. One will have to wait until at least November to get Pixel 4 at more reasonable pricing.
They've always been 1 to 2 years behind the competition. I've always assumed that to be on purpose, though -- because Google partners with their hardware competition they don't want to trample on their sales, as that wouldn't be good for their business model.
I can understand your complaints with failures of Google with the Pixel phone, but honestly I don't think they're going to make the changes that you're looking for. Pixel is never going to lockstep with the competition. It seems obvious to me now that that was never their intent.
I didn't keep my Pixel 3 because I felt that it was a regression when compared to my S8, which I've had for two years now. I'd greatly prefer stock Android and no curved screen, though, so my only benchmark for Pixel 4 is it needs to feel like an upgrade over my S8.
iOS, in its current form, is dead to me as a personal device. My mom has an iPhone XR, and it was very frustrating just doing something that should be simple, such as getting ringtones synced to it. Just the fact that I can't connect iPhone to my PC and drag and drop wallpapers and ringtones drives me mad.