I absolutely agree with every request you have for the hardware. Does that mean you give Apple a pass on software because they're working on hardware? Look at a jailbreak forum, and you'll see what people want Apple to do with the iOS.
I feel like I have a child's toy when I have a 6 inch screen on my phone, but I'm only "allowed" to have 4 icons across, and 6 icons down. Can you imagine if Apple enforced the same proportionate requirements of what you can have on your desktop? That's my biggest gripe with iPhone.
Pick up an Android, go into Settings, and check out everything you can customize in there. Check out the features it has that nobody thinks is important, but when you see the list of things you can do, you'll say wait a second, why doesn't Apple do this?
But hey, kudos to Apple to let me send fireworks with my iMessage, or integrating my Starbucks App into iMessage so I can send someone a Starbucks card through iMessage instead of email. I'm sure glad Apple is focusing on what's important.... changing to "signal dots" instead of signal bars... oh wait, guess that didn't work out too well, iOS 11 bringing back signal bars... wonder how many thousands of developer hours that took to come up with and now undo.
I feel like every iOS is a repetition of the last... everyone posts these big wish lists and Apple ignores it. You'd think at the very least, they'd let me put a weather widget on my home screen, or maybe let me put the icons where I want them? It's just getting old... real old. And I'm bored. When my desktop screen gets boring, I can change the wallpaper and re-arrange icons. When my living room gets tired, I can shuffle the furniture in an arrangement that's new and different. In an Apple world, none of this is possible.